It is very usual for liberal couples interested in trying swing and who haven’t tried ysos yet to be afraid of exposing themselves and this ends up preventing them from having new experiences.
Fear comes from many factors:
- the fear of being recognized and having their secret discovered
- of approaching people who are not interested and end up being inconvenient
- of suffering rejection from other more experienced couples
- o be exposed to family and friends since not everyone understands the liberal way of life
Because of this, these liberal couples end up just imagining what it would be like to enjoy everything this lifestyle can offer.
Our tips today are for those of you who want to meet other liberal couples without taking any risks!
After all, where are the liberal couples?
The first step is to know where to look for these people 😉 That in itself will help a lot to avoid embarrassment
This search can take a long time or a short time… it will depend on your level of demand in relation to what you need to know about these people before an actual meeting.
The safest place to search is in specialized applications and social networks, such as ysos, for example.
In these places the couple is safe and has their anonymity guaranteed.
This way, you can meet other couples protected by your persona until you decide to meet some of them in person.
If you’re not too shy or haven’t had too much trouble getting recognized (but always keeping it private) you can go to liberal clubs and watch until you feel good enough to act!
An unusual way, which requires some delicacy in the search, but which can bring very positive results is to find liberal couples among your friends.
Friends who have the same predilection can be an option and an easier way to find the right people.
And how to approach liberal couples friends without error?
Never be invasive. During an informal meeting in a bar or restaurant, the subject can be exact. It is important to pay attention to everyone’s reaction and identify who is interested in the practice.
Tell about dreams with this theme, jokes about the subject, comment on learning about couples who have this lifestyle, about houses and parties for couples.
Curiosity is a good gateway to make the subject happen.
If the other couple is a liberal couple or a couple of curious people who are also interested in joining the practice, they will understand the topic and will pursue the case at the right time for them.
If the reaction is negative, don’t push it. And this is not a reason for resistance either. Other couples will appear!
There are many of them in ysos. Join us!
Have questions or would like more tips? Contact us!